You don't have to be freak out by this; your entitled to your opinion. On what everyone else wears.
But a few months ago I learned that one of his kinky fetishes is to wear girl's underwear. At first I didn't understand it, and I admit I was nervous about it seeing as how my longterm boyfriend from highschool turned out to be gay But then I started to think of it from his perspective, he's a general manager and runs multiple stores, he's a total control freak and an extreme "bro" at times So i'm starting to think it has something to do with him always being in control and he thinks it's a kink to be humiliated or something like that.
Either way, I love him, but I still find myself a little tad bit weirded out by it? Maybe you can ask him about it but not in a rude way? If it's been a year you should be at the point where you're comfortable talking to each other about your kinks or things like that and maybe if it ever comes up or you notice it you can point it out and see what he says. You don't want to just push it on him but you could try to ease it into the conversation, it may even just a reason you never thought of or he just likes it and it doesn't have as much meaning as you seem to be reading into it.
Either way good luck. Every time he brings it up, idk it's just bad timing. I just get really caught off guard and I get really quiet because I don't know what to say and then he goes "Now you hate me" and i'm just like "No I don't". Idk we're never horny at the same time, like the other day I was touching his butt and felt that he was wearing them, and i was just really taken off guard because my understanding was that it was just a bedroom thing..
If only I felt like disclosing what my partner and I got up to hahaha- Like you said: Just say you want to be part of it so ask him to explain what "does it for him" about it, so you can understand better and play to his kinks. I don't think it's that weird at all, sounds like you could be spot on with the whole "I don't want to be in control for once" thing.
Has he expressed that he likes the humiliation side of it? If so that's cool, but also try not to jump to that, in case he literally just likes the feel of them, or the fact he has a secret no one knows, or something like that! Maybe he can try harder at accommodating your kinks in return. I personally don't see anything wrong with it maybe it's a softer material or maybe he likes the way it holds things in I woukd just ask him what he likes about it and maybe you can buy him some.
But if he doesn't feel comfortable talking about it because he thinks you're judging him for it, he isn't going to open up. Just make sure he knows it's ok and you support it. If he wears them all the time, it could be for the type of support they provide for him. Think about it this way, men's underwear are on the looser side of things. Even the "tighty righties" yes.
Righties because they are SO right lol. Women's underwear may be tighter feeling and he could like the securities that come along with that. Just talk to him about it. Never gonna know unless you ask. I've always been different. I don't have some odd story about why but I just like the way they look and feel. My family has always been "anti-gay".
I always got questioned weather I was and since I told them I wasn't they always replied "good! I just know that when I got caught I was beat very violently for it. My family thought it was so horrible. I've realized recently that what I wear under my clothes is my preference. No one but me and my girlfriend sees it so why do I have to be scared of judgement.
My girlfriend has even openly offered to me that it is not a bad thing. Women wear men's clothes so why isn't it acceptable for it to be reversed? Hell she even supported me as much as to help me find a par that looked good and what size to buy. I can say this for anyone facing this "issue" and not doing it in fear of judgement that it's okay to wear em. Why do you have to be afraid of social standards when no one sees it anyways! I look good in some and I feel even better!
No this not uncommon for a man to have a thrill or a curiosity towards something! I've learned to love it! If you go on amazon and buy a pair then you don't even have to worry about a store clerk judging you! Knowing that he is Bi is that something that "Bi" guys like to do or just something that "he" likes to do? Too bad you can't add to your poll if a person is Bi or straight. Can you re ask your question with that info? It would have been nice if the one guy that answered yes would have said if he is Bi or Straight.
I'm straight as hell and wear panties. My girl friend and I shop for them and she picks them out for me. It's a turn on for her and I feel way more comfortable in them.
Never once had a gay thought pop in my head ever. It's just what I like! Yes you should Definitely wear some panties. They are very comfy if they are not the thong.. And what's the big deal really.. Same cotton same fabrics really. Panties are just a slightly different design. Besides, I am not talking about novelty or funny underwear. I am a 39 year old guy, I have asked my fiance what she would say and she said.
I am not sure what I would say or do, so I tried it and took a pair of her panties and put them on. She actually was a bit taken back with shock however, she has actually come to think it is really quite hot. I wear her panties all day now about three times a week we have also decided that we will buy panties, things, etc and just share them.
I have worn them for many years. I am married with children and grand children. My wife always wore the big cotton panties and i would occasionally by her bikinis. One day she said, "If you like them so much why don't you try wearing them. I do not see what the big deal is anyway. The style a few years ago was girls in boxers on the: At least mine cannot be seen by anyone. I am strait and wear panties because they feel great and I love the way they look, its such a turn on to put on a pair of pink lacy panties under my jeans and nobody knows..
I'm gay and I love wearing them too because I just like how it feels and I love the fabric and how there's many to choose from in all sorts of different colors and styles to choose from. Not neccasarily" some guys like to wear womens panties,just like there women who like to wear mens underwear,why do you think they make boxers for women now? Maybe, but still not common. I don't think it's common either. Not real cool if you've got designs on this guy.
The guys who are saying it's common Anonymous User, and onebozo don't have much to prove it. I've been in a few guy's locker rooms and never seen it, and I've personally never had the urge, so from my own experience, no, it's not common. It'd freak me out a bit too, and I'd always be wondering just how he's looking at me.
Personally, I don't buy the "bisexuality" bit either, but it's a very convenient excuse to get out of any relationship Sorry, girl, I've found this guy.
Oh, sorry, dude, I'm getting feelings for a girl. I've seen lots of guys wearing what seem to be women's panties, mostly Bikini or thong types, and some, even in pink! Never gave a second thought, because, so what? I'm not in to what guys wear, but I also don't have any issues if they are gay, or hetero, and like wearing something they find comfortable!! Why is a person's underwear even a question? Why are you looking, to see them, wearing that? Hiding your own, secret feelings? No, you shouldn't be freaked out.
It means he is either a trans or just likes the feel of it. Some guys do enjoy the feel. I personally am very fem at times and enjoy the feel of them far more then males underwear. It's just much more comfortable. Then again, I'm also Bi. From my experience, it's more common in straight men, than bi men. Don't know why though. Haven't put too much thought into it, as it is JUST underwear and the manufactures for mens underwear don't think its worth the time, effort, and money to design a comfortable pair of undies for men that is similar in comfort, material and style as they do for women.
I tried only once because that was at the girls request to put hers on. No they did not fit. The people that say it's gay, or they're weird, don't understand it at all. It's not a perversion, it's not strange. Many people may do it because of stress, problems at work - it may be their way to unwind.
If they enjoy it, let them be - it's just clothes, and isn't harming anyone. Who are you to judge whether or not someone can wear something? You're basing your entire perception of normal on society. On what everyone else wears. But how do you know everyone else is normal? Underneath your co-workers of your big bos, how do you know he's not wearing some satin of lace panties? You don't, and to be honest you shouldn't care. All to their own. Some people do it for sexual thrills - at the end of the day, they enjoy it, and if you don't like it or think it's weird, think about the reasons they may be doing it or just ignore it.
Happy new year all. If you google "straight men wearing panties" you'll start to realise how many people do this. You'll find different perceptions about who people think would do it, Gay, Bi or Straight but the answer is this. We all do it. Not in the sense that all men do it I just mean all walks of life. Some people do not like sex. I do not understand this but I do not judge that or think it's wierd.
Some people get food involved in the bedroom, I prefer it on my plate. But I do not think this is strange. I wouldn't say it's super common, no, but it's not unheard of. It's more of a personal quirk than something you should expect from bisexual guys in general. But why would you be freaked out? I do know that straight guys will put on a pair of girls panties for the hell of it sometimes
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